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52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks – Week 28: Reunions: Nilsen Family Does Them Yearly!

This is my second year working on this year-long prompt, hosted by Amy Johnson Crow. I will write each week in one of my two blogs, either Mam-ma’s Southern Family or at My Trails Into the Past. I have enjoyed writing about my children’s ancestors in new and exciting ways.

My husband’s mother was a Nilsen before her marriage. When I first met my husband, I found out about the yearly Nilsen Family Reunion. Because there were many families living in Southern California, the reunion in the 1960s through 90s were held in alternately in Southern California and Northern California.

The Nilsen family first lived in Hilmar, Merced County, California, when the Rev. Nils Malkom Nilsen came in 1906 to be the first pastor at the Hilmar Mission Church.[1] Later in November 1920, he moved his family to Los Angeles to be the pastor at the First Covenant Church in San Pedro.[2] Three of his children continued to live in Southern California after he moved back north.

The first reunion was in 1935, when Nil's son, Joe and his family came back from their first tour in the Congo of Africa. 


When my mother-in-law's sister, Bernice, moved to Southern California in 1961, the reunions were held there so families could take trips to Disneyland. Bernice said, they once had 37 people stay at their home, with children in sleeping bags on the floor or in tents outside.

Today, the reunions are held in Northern California and occasionally at Lake Tahoe. Twice they were out of state in Colorado and Idaho. Our family drove to Colorado in a three-car caravan, stopping at National Parks in Utah along the way.

Everyone brings food for the potluck. We play softball or some other game. Volleyball was played once at the beach. A piñata or two are available for the children. By dusk, we’re cleaning up and meeting either at the local motel where everyone is staying or at a local family member’s house to continue the visiting.

Some years, T-shirts were made for each of the family lines in different colors. We celebrate life’s anniversaries of births, marriages, deaths, graduations, and job successes.

And we celebrate family.






[1] “Seventieth Birthday of Pastor Observed,” clipping probably from the Turlock Daily Journal, June 1935,  Nilsen Family Archive; privately held by Lisa S. Gorrell, [Address for private use], Martinez, California.
[2] "U.S., Evangelical Covenant Church, Swedish American Church Records, 1868-1970," digital image, Ancestry (https://www.ancestry.com), First Covenant Church, Record of Members, p. 178, no. 495. Rev Nils Malkom Nilsen, image 160 of 232.

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